Goodbye to Goals

Tomorrow morning, I'm going to have my monthly phone meeting with my success-team buddy.

We've been a team of two for about a year. I've had some successes but lately, I've been experiencing huge resistance to completing goals by the appointed deadlines. In some cases, I've concluded that pursuing a goal will not take me in the direction I really want to go. In others, the goal pertains to a personal interest. But tacking on a deadline kills my love for it. During our meetings, I sometimes find I'm censoring my true feelings, or agreeing to her suggestions to please her.

So tomorrow, I'm going to ask if we can take a break from regular goals. I have faith my creativity will remain, and some interests return, even if I'm not reporting in regularly. And I think she is in a place that meets many of her personal goals, so she may agree to the break.

On the other hand, she may be disappointed in me and I hate that prospect. Still, I believe it's worth it to see what happens.

But I'm dreading our talk. Hopefully, I'll be able to get some sleep.